My husband for 13 years (together for 17 years) says he wants a divorce after a 4 month separation. We got married around 26 and we are both 40 now. We have no kids and I am absolutely devastated. About 2 years ago I switched up careers which now has me making a 1/4 of what he makes a year. We had decided on this together because it would not be a financial issue. Now I am devastated, I miss him, I want to try and work things out, but he is finished with this marriage. Along with the heartache is this overwhelming anxiety over what will happen to me now that I cannot even make an adequate salary anymore! I am terrified about what is to come!! Does anyone have any advice????