I just saw the post about ruptures and was debating posting this because I basically have the same question.

I’ve had a lot of ruptures with my current T and I’ve never had them before in any other therapeutic relationship. I barely have conflicts in my other personal relationships because I’m not that close to anyone.

My T this week suggested that I don’t want to take her suggestions, i.e I don’t want to do the things that would help me feel better.

I’m just enraged that she would say that to a person with depression. Of course I want to do things to help get me out of this situation, I just don’t feel like I can. And I can’t believe we’ve been working together for almost a year and you still don’t get that and think I don’t want to help myself. Even if she thought that, there’s another way to say it where it doesn’t put all the onus on me.

Clearly, I’m really angry about this and it sucks that I’ll have to deal with this anger all week until we can have a session again. At least in a normal relationship, you can talk about it right away.

This might be the final straw for me. Everything else I could move past but I don’t know about this.