I feel you, Have Hope, though I think the road would be a burden Big Bubba would have to face without the training you may have aquired in your lifetime. As children, we are short-term thinkers, we can shrug of pain more easily and thus learn to deal with it in a constructive fashion. Perhaps I am projecting my experience on BigBubba, but I very much assume that he has not (as I have not) aquired those skills, so I think taking that path would be very disruptive, but that is not to say it wouldn't be worth it. It is after all the path I chose for myself many years ago, but it was and is not at all an easy path to take. I am willing to concede if proven otherwise