Thanks. I am a pretty trusting person. Even though my first marriage ended when I caught her talking to other guys and in tinder I still consider myself trusting. I want to believe that there is no one else. No, we have separate phone account, I guess time will only tell if she jumps into a new relationship quickly. I know it is not the genders fault I and I hope I can get past this and come out with as little of emotional damage as possible. I shouldn't even be looking into the future. This issue is 100% a communication breakdown and I'm sure I played my part in not asking the right questions or working to get her to open up. Every day after work it was "how was your day", "okay" and I would tease her that she never shared anything. I should have known from that I needed to read some communication books to get her to open up. That was a huge red flag. She never could share her true feelings I guess. My marriage checked every box of what I wanted except communication, sounds like I didn't check many if her boxes if she can just walk away so easily.
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