L and I made huge progress yesterday on a different rupture. Well, it wasn't a rupture or a disagreement, but more of a misunderstanding on both our parts. I emailed her about my SI duringher vacation, and she thought I was reaching out to her when she wasn't there. We're learning how to have deeper conversations, more understanding, and using a common vocabulary. I feel so much more known and she feels less confused. We are understanding each other and working as a team on this. It feels so good to make progress.