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Originally Posted by Rive.
So much for mom saying it was her husband who was enabling Jeff. It seems everyone is enabling Jeff...
You didn't want the cabin in the first place and you *know* how things will go down if Jeff is involved. It is the same pattern, as you came to realise after mom did a turnabout. Nothing will change if the same players keep engaging in the same moves. THEY won't change (mom, Jeff) so this means YOU will have to do something different.
The best (not saying it is necessarily easy) move would be to walk away.
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I’m disappointed that she basically threw dad under the bus and in the need, it’s her that is the enabler.
I’m fine with walking away. Believe me. I’m doing this only because my wife is upset.
As far as I’m concerned they are both dead to me. Mom will regret her decision , if she hasn’t a;ready.
The rest of the family doesn’t talk to us anymore because we are the bad people who tried to steal the family cabin when all we did was step up to the plate to help mom. They are crazy