View Single Post
 
Old Dec 09, 2021, 06:32 PM
East17's Avatar
East17 East17 is offline
Veteran Member
 
Member Since: Mar 2014
Location: UK
Posts: 546
Sometimes when we're sitting in silence, it's not necessarily because I'm processing something, it's because I'm struggling to talk.

I had a lot of silences with ex-T. She never tried to fill them, but did ask questions to encourage me to open up. We built a rapport that way, because I never felt alone with everything.

I like you as a person, but I don't yet feel as though you are on this journey with me. It feels like I'm struggling along on my own and you are watching from the sidelines, but not engaging with me. Is there any way we can change that?

I wonder why you asked me about the plan this week, did you think I would have changed my mind already? Even Ex-T wasn't able to perform that miracle. You said you are only a text away. But I don't know you well enough yet to know how you would react if I texted you in that state of mind. I don't think I'll be putting it to the test.

Sent from my SM-A526B using Tapatalk
__________________
To the world you might be just one person; but to one person you might be the world.
Hugs from:
LonesomeTonight, SlumberKitty