I don't forgive or forget.
My wife told me that "resentment is like drinking poison hoping it will kill the other person".
But I don't have resentment. I just cut people out of my life. Little things I can forgive, like if someone said something off-hand that offended me, but a deliberate act to harm me in anyway, physically, mentally or emotionally deserve no room in this short life. There are only so many people I can care about and I am very selective about who those people are.
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