I'm on disability, and my husband and sister recently took early retirement. Both of the latter don't have much going on besides their spouses' company. [My b-i-l retired early a long while ago.] We all wish the b-i-l would finally do some home improvements, but he won't. Instead, he and my nephew worsen their house hoarding.

I really think my husband should start helping his friend part-time. That was the main reason we moved where we did. I would even try to help him with some of the work, but he resists starting.

I keep myself busy with various projects, including cooking. I would still be terrified to try part-time work, and what's worse is that Hubby is even more scared about me trying. I'm not retirement age yet, so wouldn't have that security if I attempted to formally try working.