@~Christina, that's nice that your son will have a bone fide traditional wedding. I'm sure Steve will be fine with the drive. I hope his lung issues ease soon. They have even after that particularly hard time, a while back. As for your breast examination, I imagine you keep on top of those things. No matter what is found, if anything of concern, I imagine it can be dealt with well. So many women with breast cancer, nowadays, survive it. In fact, it's been a while that I heard of anyone who hasn't. At least no one I know personally. Hugs and strength to you in getting through that stressor. Do you have any plans during Steve's time in Florida to treat yourself in a pleasant way? On the very rare occasions my husband is away, I watch and listen to whatever I want. All the stuff my husband doesn't like. Then I have a food marathon eating everything he can't or won't.