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Originally Posted by Oldguy51
The cabin is a done deal. I cleared out my stuff the next day. I will never go back. Even if mil leaves it to my wife and her brother I will never go back. I can’t stand the guy.
Couldn’t care about mom either. Fool me once…… with the following caveat:
She did reach out for help and I’d like to give her one last lifeline as her behavior was completly out of character (or was it?) there’s also the possibility of early dementia (it’s in the family)
Not sure how I came across as wanting to change them? I know I won’t. He won’t change. He’s a lost cause. Especially at 40.
Was just shocked as mom was all “time to bring the hammer down” and initiated the plan. I stuck to the plan and did exactly what we all agreed on.
I got played for a fool |
What I bolded above--careful what you wish for because often it comes back on you. At the least, it's unbecoming and speaks to how much anger you're harboring against these people.
If you're done, you're done. I guess I'm not understanding that level of anger if you've already taken your ball and gone home, so to speak. Should be a non-issue for you at this point. Obviously it's still a big issue for you because you are continually referring to him as "baby Jeff." Kind of like a jealous sibling.