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Default Dec 12, 2021 at 08:02 AM
 
Yeah, I think that's fine Photonate. The problem only arises, I think, when the person is so overly concerned with what others may or may not think about them, that it's causing stress, it's causing worry, it's causing depression, they're losing sleep. They keep obsessing and thinking about it, finding only the negatives. They're tearing their hair out! That kind of thing is where a problem could arise.

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