Hello.

I think it might be a case of just being fully honest about how you feel. Even after you've rationalised the other person's behaviour and basically tried to give them a second chance etc, still ask yourself, 'how do I truly feel about them' or 'can I accept them into my life now' - questions like that. Being able to trust in the person might be part of the equation too.

I hope I've understood your question correctly.🙏