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Old Dec 13, 2021, 11:38 AM
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Originally Posted by AzulOscuro View Post
Guess you have empathy and that’s why you felt concerned about your mother’s situation in a state of coma. But, it’s not easy to forgive. You want it, for her and your own but sometimes it’s not easy at all.

I see forgiveness as a supreme state of acceptation and understanding. Somehow, you passed the page and go ahead. When a person is able to overcome and accept a deep damage without any intervention on the part of the offender? I guess it has to do a lot with the state you are yourself in. How emotionally strong you feel.

I find meaningful the phrase: I forgive but I don’t forget. Because when you don’t have a retribution or any repair from the offender, all you have is to forgive. Only for your own well-being. Nothing else is.
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