Do understand what you mean Winds the blow, my mum is like that too. I told her this morning my sister and brother-in-law are coming for Christmas dinner. There’s nothing she needs to do. She got all excited and decided to dust even though that was just done! So I got out the vacuum and went over the high traffic areas just to calm her down. Really what needs doing is the Christmas cards, just a few a day but she gets overwhelmed.