One thing I forgot to add and don't want to portray that I'm gloating because I'm not.

Whilst they are congratulating themselves on this decision, they've succeeded in making themselves look silly. Certainly not me!

Unaluna, your comment rings true. As I told my mother yesterday, this hasn't all happened because of what my sister-in-law did, it started years ago. Of course, she's conveniently forgotten all the times she's belittled/criticised me and now tries to pass it off as old age.

Still "searching" for the hug....