I'm in a similar boat. I have schizoaffective (10 years strong) and likely ADHD (idk, lifelong?) too, but since that wasn't caught in childhood I'll probably never get help for it despite the fact that even when the sza is stable I'm still a general wreck.. I've developed an eating disorder over the past year that hasn't really been addressed yet (other that my therapist telling me to eat ****ing yougurt and I'll be OK).