Wounded1, I want to apologize for mentioning the nature of the website your husband has visited. In your condition, you didn't need to hear that, and I was wrong to bring it up. Maybe you already knew, but I still feel I overstepped the bounds by posting about it here.

And, well, 50guy, maybe it's a man's viewpoint you're expressing, but the mental thing is very powerful, ya know. And a man, or woman, perusing the singles' sites, while still married seems wrong to me. Then there is the whole thing of "cyber sex" which I don't understand, but apparently people enjoy it. How would you feel if your wife were doing such a thing?...or even corresponding romantically with a man? Sounds like infidelity to me.
Patty