Hey L. I hope you have some suggestions tomorrow for how I can help H grieve the loss of our cat. He's grieving hard, and I am feeling helpless. I think he's feeling a lot of guilt too that we weren't here at the end. I am feeling guilty about that too but I guess 10 years of therapy has taught me how to give myself grace because there is no way we could have known this would happen. He was acting normal on Saturday morning before we left. I mean if he had not eaten his breakfast, or had given any indication of what was coming, we would not have left. We thought he still had another 6 months-year from what the vet had said when she diagnosed the kidney disease. but she told us on Tuesday that it was apparently more advanced than she had known. I don't want to spend our whole last session on this though. I need time to say our goodbyes. What a hard combination of a session.