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Originally Posted by workinonit32
Its been 12 days with no communication. I have tried to smash out all hope but I can't there is too much love. Still no divorce papers, still a FB picture of us as her profile ( yes, I know I shouldn't check) counselor ask questions that lead to me thinking about infidelity, I don't want to believe but it just makes sense. I may never know and yet I still hold out hope. I'm sure my hope will be squashed soon and maybe that is for the best. I can't move on, I know what I need to do to move on I just can't, not until I know there is no more hope.
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There is a word that continues to pop up for me as I go through my process... its odd that it comes up and with such frequency...
PATIENCE.
Patience my good man. It is literally the last thing you want to hear and the last thing you want to think about. Keeping your distance and respecting her wishes may catch her attention. Fingers crossed and hope for the best. Whatever happens is going to happen.
Quit checking her social media. Lol I get it, I did it too… Quit checking her social media! Lol (maybe that is a good sign you are not blocked and her/your pic is still up)
Yeah, its understandable, you are looking for closure.
Even if there is a third party, they seldom work out. Grass is not always greener on the other side. Patience and distance and who knows… No one can judge you or tell you what to do. Only you can make that decision and your support group will support you either way.
Stay focused, work on you and work on improving you. That IS, the only thing you can control at this stage in the game.