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And, well, 50guy, maybe it's a man's viewpoint you're expressing, but the mental thing is very powerful, ya know. And a man, or woman, perusing the singles' sites, while still married seems wrong to me. Then there is the whole thing of "cyber sex" which I don't understand, but apparently people enjoy it. How would you feel if your wife were doing such a thing?...or even corresponding romantically with a man? Sounds like infidelity to me.
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OK, fair enough answer but, I wouldn't even have a thought that my wife was visiting such places and doing such things. I would feel puzzeled as to why she would do such a thing. A fantasy romance online???? I could do that for her if that is what she wanted. Cyber sex??? I would ask her how that gave any satisfaction when I can provide skin on skin for her. Corresponding romantically with a faceless person online....now that is pure fantasy and just plain childish, what are we, school kids passing notes here? Where do poeple come up with this? There has got to be something missing in their lives to do that.
I am not against flirting, I am known as one, a flirt.
It isn't infidelity if there hasn't been physical contact.
I have a hugh problem with people that think along the lines of any chatting, flirting, or concern about a person of the opposite sex is damaging to a marriage.
Maybe I'm a one of a kind guy, I've been told that by my wife, and just don't understand all the emotional issues that are caused by fantasy.
Anyway, thanks for your answers, I don't reject them, I just don't think along those lines.