That sounds tough Waterbear... I also don’t understand why some(?) therapists frown with seeing 2 different professionals. Part of me can see the ‘conflict’ in some instances but I believe it is up to the client. In your situation, I think it is sad they can’t get on board with this idea. I hope you see, or find, a way forward that is supportive for you through all of this.

I hear you LT. Going online seems a big loss for you. And with the current state of the world, meeting in person seems even more precarious. I hope you can still feel connected online with your T and his ‘crazy’ shirts! (I don't mean to downplay the loss of in-person)

I admire your courage-strength-progress Artie re your therapy. I would *not* be able to do what you did. And I am sorry L did not give you the letter you wished for..

I am sorry Scarlet. That sounds really painful... Your T seems such a keeper and I feel the heartbreak at potentially ‘losing’ her. I hope she stays..

Goodness BethRags, this sounds pretty unsettling. Is there any way you could ‘remind’ her – ‘dear T, could we work on X as we agreed last week’? And cancelling sucks, especially when she tends to be out so much..

I am sorry East17. I can’t imagine how painful that must be for you. In no way comparable but I hope you currently have support to help you through?

comrademoomoo – that sounds like a painful place to me. I may be projecting as this is also where I am at, with my T..

Mountainweed. It is unfortunate that you didn’t find the closure (for lack of a better word) you needed with ex-T. That seems to make it hard to move forward.