((((safe hugs)))) @Mountaindewed - I'll at least remember to support you when you post - that is, if I'm not too triggered. And even if I am triggered, I'll at least try to say something supportive in return. I do this with my friends in real life, too. Sometimes they will start to share about some details about their traumas that I can't handle, for instance. I have to tell them when it is too much for me to hear, and I feel bad, but I just can't hear that stuff sometimes. But I try to tell them that I can support them in other ways, if they can rephrase what they are saying without the details. If that makes sense.