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Old Dec 21, 2021, 05:42 PM
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Just say I'm gathering thoughts on this topic & would appreciate your input along with the others I am gathering.

No asking for an opinion or even the fact you have a decision to make. How we frame what we say makes all the difference.

Oh yea, my mom was horrible at doing that & wouldn't talk to me for weeks sometimes. Have a friend who did that even when her thoughts weren't asked for & like my mom, she would get irritated & leave me alone for awhile....dysfunction is tough to deal with
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