Just say I'm gathering thoughts on this topic & would appreciate your input along with the others I am gathering.
No asking for an opinion or even the fact you have a decision to make. How we frame what we say makes all the difference.
Oh yea, my mom was horrible at doing that & wouldn't talk to me for weeks sometimes. Have a friend who did that even when her thoughts weren't asked for & like my mom, she would get irritated & leave me alone for awhile....dysfunction is tough to deal with
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Leo's favorite place was in the passenger seat of my truck. We went everywhere together like this.
Leo my soulmate will live in my heart FOREVER Nov 1, 2002 - Dec 16, 2018
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