I have a lot to do before M gets here tomorrow. I’ll easily be up all night. She’s asked for 3 things: a concoction of orange peels, cloves and cinnamon that I boil to make the house smell holiday like, my famous cube steak with golden mushroom gravy and to drive her around to see the Christmas lights - all of which I will happily do. I have all her presents as well.

I sent sister a text yesterday before she came over setting a boundary and in essence saying don’t poke the bear and that I didn’t want conflict before Christmas. It worked! She was quiet and subdued. I spoke up for myself diplomatically and I took back my power. Yay!

I hope everyone has a peaceful day.