So the actual physical contact is what harms a marriage?? I don't think so. If you are getting sexually "charged" or whatever & have a relationship with this person outside of your marriage, you are damaging your marriage,IMO.

I don't want my husband "talking" (on-line or on the phone) with some woman about sex--maybe I'm old-fashioned, but I thought that was what the marriage included--sexual & emotional fidelity.

Wounded1: This is a terrible burden to have while you are pregnant. Do you have support?--emotional? therapist or good friend or if religious, pastor?

It wouldn't fly in this household. I'd choose to be alone first.--Suzy