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Originally Posted by RoxanneToto
I’m sorry you’re having a tough time with your friend; I think protecting yourself is the right thing to do, however she feels about it. We all have the right to lay down boundaries. Do you think the feeling of overthinking it might be because you wanted to please her, but not at the potential expense of your own health?
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Yes. I was not trying to pressure her. It's her decision to make her own choice about vaccination. But it affects my ability to spend time with her. I wanted to communicate that. I have put effort into this friendship, and I have valued it. I did not anticipate her getting so angry. I have tried to please her any way I have known to do. But I will avoid being around anyone who is not getting the vaccinations I've gotten. I'm not even sure what about that makes her angry. I thought she would understand.
I guess I'm kind of in shock to have her turn on me like this. It makes me feel like I didn't know her as well as I thought I did. I think I'ld just as soon not ever hear from her again. I'll never trust her as much as I was starting to. She can be a bit demanding. This shows me how little respect she really has for me and for my rights.