I need to add and forgot... Besides her asking me to sit with her, calling me over to the other side of the court, ramming dirty socks into each other's faces... I cant tell you how many times we looked into each others eyes while delivering a joke at the others expense. 3-4-5 seconds... Lots of smiling and laughing... I was relaxed and having fun. I detected she was relaxed (finally) and having fun with me. None of the D-word anxiety, no labels for each others actions...
It was just her and me... I enjoyed the time... I am hoping she did.