I've never understood why a person is too embarrassed to talk about sex and birth control with their partner, but able to get naked with them. If you're too embarrassed to discuss it, you should be too embarrassed to do it. I don't mean to sound harsh, but that's reality. I would highly suggest another form of birth control, the method that you're using right now is very unreliable. Don't get me started on diseases. If he doesn't care enough about you to use a condom, he's not worth your time.