The question to ask yourself in these dilemmas is, is this relationship acceptable to you? If not, what can/do you want to do about it? It’s ok if you want to leave the door open for her, but I can understand why you’d be tired of the push-pull and it’s unlikely she will change her nature without introspection and hard work to change etc.
I’m sorry you’re going through this, though. It does sound tough.
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