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Originally Posted by LonesomeTonight
I mean, mine offers me a backup T (which I've used before) if he's going to be gone for a week because he said he otherwise thinks of it a "abandoning his practice." But I get the sense that's unusual, as many people mention their T's going away for planned vacation (let alone illness) for multiple weeks without any sort of backup offered. I'm not sure what he would do in the case of sudden illness (or worse), though I know he has something setup where his wife (not a therapist) would contact his clients to inform them, as I asked about it once (I refrained from asking what if something happened to both of them).
I know if a T terminates, at least in the US, they're supposed to offer a few referrals. I'd think if they knew they were going to be out for an extended period of time they'd at least ask clients if they wanted to see someone else and offer a few names, ideally contacting those T's to try to get their clients to the top of any waiting list. Though there is a therapy shortage in some areas, made worse by the pandemic, so that could complicate things.
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From everything I'm reading, I think your T has it right. I think ethically they are supposed to have a plan in place for continuity of care should something happen. I've never worried much about having a back up in place because breaks were always planned and never more than 2 weeks, but now that I've been left in limbo for 5 weeks and counting, I'm going to ask that there always be a back up therapist planned.
Because of my experience, I encourage you to have a further conversation about what would happen if something happened to him and his wife. I initiated the conversation at the beginning of the pandemic, and accepted the answer of "I'd text you." Now, living through the "what if something happens" scenario, I wish I would have asked for a more thorough plan.