Thanks everyone!

I am fine with all else and don't have any issues with him other than his prior anger. He has been talking in therapy and will continue to work on things there.

Otherwise, we are happy..... and I am happier with him now. I am definitely still a bit cautious about him moving back in, but I will pull the plug again and permanently if he chooses to revert back to old behaviors. It will be sad, yes, and heartbreaking, but I will know it's over for good in that case.