I know how it is when someone blindside you. In my case it wasn’t by a family member - it was from so called “colleagues” from work. And for years. I hope you just can come through this and that you stay strong. Take day by day, or even so - moment by moment. Try to remember also good things you had with your daughter, those nice, sweet moments that she also remember. Because those little moments are gems. And if you decide to go with her and her boyfriend (even though it would’ve been better that you and your daughter spent that time together for yourselves), enjoy the moment. Don’t freak out, but, don’t forget that you’re parent and she will be always be your daughter - nevertheless the age.
I hope she can understand one day the point of having for example boundaries, that there are there for a reason - not only in school but in entire societies. Instead of letting some police officers (or court) explain that for her if one day situation escalates from bad to worse.
Stay safe and I wish you sir all the best!
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