It sounds like everyone had a bad time with a memory foam. I will take note of that and avoid it. I have that same problem with pillows. I also need to pay top dollar for quality pillows. Posh, I'm still unsure of buying a mattress online, but that's not to say I won't look into it. Downandlonely, I have the means to pay upfront, my biggest issue is getting the bed delivered on time. Can anyone else vouch for Casper? Another big issue is not trying out the mattress, I need to know I'll love it. Like another member said, spend a little or a lot, and I'm willing to pay top dollar as long as my next house doesn't burn down for a third time😡😡😡