hi..

I wanted to say also.. like Kiya... that your question on sex and such really is one of the questions that is asked most frequently.. for those that know me... it is a common question..

Learning about DID... I think it is wonderful that you want to be supportive and learn...

I am not well.. and up to searching... but a member a long time ago.. posted a site for a manual for SO.. on learning about DID..

He was not DID but dating or married.. can't remember.... but he listed the site in one of the posts...

It was written by a man married to a DIDer... and it was so good.. had humor..

I contacted the author.. and we had a very nice conversation... for me it was rare to meet someone other than a therapist that really "got" DID.. and he did..

so if ou have the energy.. perhaps.. you could look for that posting... it was by a man... a ways back...