Hello, I am in my 50's, and have decided that I'm ready to take my life back! I'm still trying to figure out how to tell my husband that I want out. I thought it would be harder to get an apartment, but it happened fast! I can move in to my new home in about 3 weeks -- but have to get through the hurdle of telling my husband and grown kids. He is going to be blindsided, which I don't want -- but since he's clueless about so many things, I feel like nothing I do will avoid that blindside.
I'm concerned that he will get violent and break things (as he's done in the past) and that he might prevent me from taking what I need. I'm trying to figure out how to pack in secret -- but he took today off and he's always home when I get home home from work. I hate sneaking around, but that's what I feel like I'm doing...
Does any of this sound familiar? I feel like I'm about to rock the worlds of the people I love.