(((( @stahrgeyzer )))) - Safe hugs and thoughts and wishes for your entire system! I hope you're not leaving! We would miss you all! Please, consider staying and working things out. You can work things out with us. We understand the struggles. You can stay and just not post, if that is more comfortable to you. We would miss you if you left though.

We like all your alters in your system - even the ones who are upset and struggling. My T helped our alters out by accepting all of them, even the ones who were upset all the time. She said their feelings were valid, and she helped them talk about some things that were bothering them. Our T was the first one to actually listen and understand them, and to accept them.

Perhaps you need a T like that.

In the meantime, you have us here. We understand.

Please consider staying.