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Originally Posted by bpforever1
I am doing well! I feel great!! I am losing weight and look great. I try to be healthy by eating less and eating vegetables. I am happy and hope this year goes well too!! I am hanging in there. I know my limitations and try not to exceed them. I am happy with my life. I am free, independent, healthy, and stable. I want to earn more money though and am looking for another job. But, I am happy with what I have also. I think this year will be better than last year. My resolution is to stay away from dating men who don't have my best interest in mind. I had enough of men who use and abuse me. I am better off alone and am happier. So, I am grateful for everything in my life. I could be greedy and ask for more but in reality, I am doing quite well and am very comfortable the way I am. I hope this year goes well for me and everybody else!! Happy New Year!!
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bpforever1 - I hope this year is better for us all!
Congratulations on all your accomplishments, including being healthier, losing weight, and having good goals for your future! The right partner is out there, but I think your redirection will be the healthiest approach yet! Perhaps without trying, your love will come to you instead of you finding it - and, you will be able to discern whether or not the person is right for you. Don't forget the wingmen (both wing ladies and wing men and wing nonbinary persons) to help you ascertain whether your partner is a good fit for you! Many healthy relationships blossom through the getting to know one another's friends and families as the next and/or final steps in the relationship - often before marriage or partnership. Without those important steps, isolation of the relationship ensues, which isn't healthy. Healthy relationships mean retaining good friends and sharing them with your mate. Sometimes our friends also help prevent a bad relationship from going further by offering the warning signs we sometimes get blinded by earlier on in the relationship. The sooner you introduce your friends, the better! Let them be your wingmen in times of need!
