Artie, we don’t know each other as I almost never post, but I feel as if I know you somewhat from your posts. I just wanted to say that I’m so sorry that your T said or did something to make you think that you never really knew her and that the whole thing was a fantasy in your mind. I really don’t believe that to be true with some Ts and I’m sorry, so deeply sorry, that she felt that way. I have a feeling that you’re right, that once you realize that or that’s said, that there’s no moving forward. But I just wanted to say that I don’t think it’s overly romantic of you and I don’t think there’s anything wrong with you for wanting something real with your T. I think that can be and that can happen and maybe you’ll find that with another T in the future. I really hope and pray that you do and I think it took such strength for you to say goodbye now. I wonder if you’re trying to make it okay in your mind that she said that when really you’re deeply hurt about it. I would be. But I think it doesn’t mean that it wasn’t a beautiful relationship between you and T anyway and just maybe there’s another T out there for you who won’t feel that way. Anyway, I don’t know if any of this makes any sense but I’m sending you all the best and I just really admire you and think you seem like the loveliest of people.