I used to be very pretty passive-aggressive so I’m pretty at setting boundaries in an assertive way.

Lately, I feel strong and I’m able to show up my real personality and follow openly my strong convictions without forgetting being flexible and open-minded but having very clear up to which point I’m about to take in.
Nonetheless, coming from what I come from that it’s exactly the other extreme, still I’m shocked by the responses I receive. For example: Some people disqualify you, putting labels on yourself that no way fit you. That is, judging you.

I’m curious as to know which kind of responses you received when you set limits in a relation.

It wouldn’t be fantastic the other person told you
something like: I understand it. I didn’t see it before. I’m gonna try to think about it. This all, at the very least.

If someone tells you your foot hurts is because it’s being stepped on.