Also, you should look into seeing a therapist so you can get help to heal from being the victim of alcoholic abuse. These individuals can get very intrusive and disrespect boundaries with their self righteous drunkenness.

You deserve to be proud of yourself for deciding to stop living your life at the mercy of that disease.

Do not let him pull you into his need to blame YOU as he embraces his drinking and disease. It’s a very narcissistic selfish disease full of very unhealthy drama.