Mountaindewed, perhaps you may find more people with possible life experience on a forum relating to transgender issues. Or one discussing hysterectomies. I have no experience with either.

This line of topic (assuming masturbation) is indeed a little beyond what most here feel comfort openly discussing. Not that I consider myself a prude, or think sexual-related issues shouldn't be discussed. However, even I have my boundaries on appropriate conversation, especially if in an inappropriate forum. Perhaps if anyone does relate, they might discuss it with you privately via PM, yet I recall you saying you've blocked PMs, an action I assume you took to protect your boundaries. My point is that if you don't get a response here, don't take offense. It's not about you, but others' boundaries and limits in terms of comfort.