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Old Jan 09, 2022, 12:41 PM
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Originally Posted by LonesomeTonight View Post
Hope it's OK to reply to this. I'm just curious--is she saying that eating/drinking things that remind you of transference T is creepy? If so, that seems rather extreme on her part. I mean, it's rather common for people to, say, listen to music that reminds them of someone from their past, and I don't see food/drink as any different from that.

I also don't like the word "creepy," as my current T used that a while back to describe getting comfort from holding a transitional object he'd given me (he's very different about things like that now, thankfully), and it was very distressing for me.
Yes thats excatly what she said. She said eating the stuff I eat because she liked it and eating stuff that reminds me of her is being obsessive and she did say it was being creepy.
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