So my husband was accusing me of cheating with several different people that dont exist including the neighbor. Accused me of making porns in our bedroom while he was out of town even when the kids were home. he would call me screaming at me and the kids (my step Children) telling me to get the men out of the house before he gets home. searching the house for "evidence" at all hours of the night keeping us up. Going through my phone. He has a history of drug and alcohol abuse. I am pretty sure he is has a narcissistic personality disorder. He is mentaly not stable and doesnt want to have normal conversations with out still accusing me. Finally i couldnt take it anymore. i left. a few days after i left, the kids went and stayed with their grandparents. he calls me about 40 times a days sometimes i have to block him. i was hoping that he would get help but it doesnt look like it. so now i have no idea what to do next. i have so much stuff still in the house we were together for 12 years married 7.