8, all i can say is WOWOWOWOW. that hit me...the friendship boat thing. may i use that? please? thanks.

lilah, i so agree with 8 on this. this doesn't make either one of you bad friends or ppl. you're both very needy right now and have to focus on your own needs. for instance if i have a toothache...an abcess...it's the worst one that ever existed therefore no one can truly understand my pain or help me with it. it's kind of the way with you and dagger right now...you both have bad toothaches and have to tend to them and start feeling better before you can concentrate fully on the needs of each other. it doesn't mean that the friendship is over or anything. it just means that the friendship may be secondary (just for a short time) until each of you can get your crisis in a better place.

gl hon.