Don't know anything about what services would be available to you, but you can call the local Mental Health America (formerly Mental Health Assoc.) or NAMI (National Alliance on Mental Illness--nami.org, I believe) & they have experience in these kinds of things & maybe can guide you.

Do you think your therapist is helping? Any way your mom could get educated about what you are going through--NAMI has classes called "Family-to-Family" that would be helpful if she is willing to learn & HELP YOU rather than just dismiss you or put you down.

You sound very mature &have a lot of insight for your age. I had my problems starting when I was 15 & in no way was I as on the ball as you are. Take care.--Suzy (old enough to be your mother & MORE).