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Default Jan 16, 2022 at 06:29 AM
 
I used to date a lot but only attracted abusive men. This is my pattern so I stopped for a while. I also had an abusive ex. I realized there is something wrong with my attraction to men so I am stopping dating.

I found a new hobby- coding. I hope to master it in a few years.

I am older and a little wiser. I am happier being alone.

Is anybody out there who is happy being alone? I do things for myself these days. I am so much happier than before. I am healthier since I spend time taking care of myself. I also am happier since I do things that please me. Life could not be better. Of course, if I could have had a good partner, this would have been nice. But after all of these years, I never attracted any man who was worth it. I come from an abusive family so I just was tuned into and attracted to only abusive men. But, now I realize this after a bad marriage and a string of abusive men. I don't need to be abused anymore. I love myself and my life too much to waste it on such abuse. Time heals to some extent but insight and common sense are better methods of preventing abusive situations.

Thank you for reading!
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