I hope it’s okay to reply to your post, I don’t have disabilities, although in how I think and process I do feel different to the mainstream.

I have friends who have disabilities, as varied as the people themselves. I don’t see their differences as an issue at all, apart from when physically they have suffered because of it. Also often how their life has been has often contributed to who they are, in a positive way, life hasn’t always been easy for them and it seems to me that they’ve developed other strengths because of it. I hope that’s okay to write, it’s just my perception.

I think many people will like, admire and love you for who you are - and people who don’t aren’t really worth your mental energy IMO.