L and I are talking about my sexuality (among other things). She was saying a future step could be discussing fantasies in detail and teasing them apart to find what what the positives are. Would you tell your T fantasies? The details? Have you?

My heart was racing thinking about introducing her to the private things in my head. However, I am tempted to in the future. I want help processing my sexuality, understanding it, and accepting it. I'd also like help with the fantasies (I have this ingrained idea that you should only have sexual thoughts about your current partner...probably from my days in church). So either accepting these fantasies that are outside my relationship or changing these thoughts to others that I could be more accepting of.

Would you do this? Have you done this?