There is so much to this that I don't know what part to be upset about. Married for 15 years, been together since highschool. It's been bad for a while. Probably 8 years, we stayed together for the kids though. She had problems with gambling first, then pills. It has gotten really bad now. I found out she was cheating on me a month ago and scamming people online for lots of money. I saw proof in her phone. She scammed women with cancer too. I'm not sure what hurt more, her cheating or the scamming she was doing. It put me in a bad position where I had to do something so I wouldn't get in trouble for what she was doing. I contacted everyone I could find that she scammed told them who she really was and any info they needed. I talked to a detective about it and gave him everything I could about it. I've talked to a lawyer and I'm about to start the divorce. We have 4 kids also. She has turned 2 (15y/o boy and 10y/ogirl)against me for not making our marriage work. Our 8 y/o boy stayed with me and will barely talk to her and our 2 year old boy is with me. Having to report her felt like it ripped my soul out. Even after all she has done and there is much more to it I'm still struggling getting over her. I know I have to protect myself for the kids sake but I struggle to go against her like this. Now I have much more evidence against her that I need to turn over to the authorities but it's eating me alive thinking about doing it. She may go to jail for a long time which she deserves, I just hate that my kids won't have a mom around. They love her so much and I hate this all.